Once you put the plan in place to get back your ex, it is important that you know how to evaluate if your technique is working. This means that you need to be aware of the most telling signs that your ex is ready to give your relationship another try. You do not have to guess when it comes to knowing if your ex is willing to get back together. There are actually some pretty big red flags that you can be on the lookout for that indicate your ex is willing to give you another chance. You just need to know what to look for. When she starts to change her mind, you will be able to tell if you know about these main signs.
Here are the top signs that indicate your ex wants you back and wants to give your relationship another shot:
You Hear From Her Without Warning
Since you have been taking time apart, you probably don’t communicate very often. However, once she is interested in getting back together with you, she will start contacting you out of the blue. If a woman chooses to reach out to an ex, this means that she still has feelings and wants to see how he feels about her. Women do not choose to call or contact exes that they no longer have feelings for. This means that if she call you, you still have a chance with her. The thing about women, is that they can be a lot more secretive than men and know how to mask their feelings really well. This means that when she call you out of the blue she most likely won’t let on that she still has feelings for you. Her call will be much more casual than that. You have to be able to read between the lines and see that her contacting you is actually her way of showing that she is still interested without having to say the words.
She might even make up some excuse as to why she is calling you, but no matte how foolproof this excuse sounds, you need to see through it. When she contacts you after you have broken up, there is a deeper reason. This means that you need to let her chase you and start playing hard to get. Do not sound overly interested on the phone. She will see you as a guy that is confident if you let her start to pursue you.
She Shows Up
The thing about exes, is that you know where to find one another. This comes in handy when you want to avoid an ex after a relationship because you know the places that they go. However, if she starts to turn up at places that you have always gone to in eth past, this means that she is on the lookout for you. There really aren’t that many accidents when it comes to bumping into an ex. In most cases, one person is trying to find the other. If she starts showing up out of the blue, she is actually looking for you. When she turns up where she knows you will be, do not be surprised if she acts surprised. She wants you to think that she wasn’t actually on the lookout for you. However, you are on to her game and will not be fooled.
It is not a coincidence that she finds herself at your hangout. If she is trying to track you down, it won’t be that difficult to restart the relationship. She is clearly still interested in you and now the ball is in your court. Always use a little caution when you are willing to get back together with a girl that displays these type of stalkerish tendencies. She might be a bit of a clinger, which could cause problems in the future. Make sure that you are really into her before you decide to get back together with this type of ex.
Social Media Interaction
If you haven’t actually spoken to your ex for a while and they start liking your Facebook posts, this is a sign that they are still into you. They are trying to send out the subtle message that they are still thinking about you. You do not like Facebook posts for someone that you don’t care about. She is trying to get you to notice her without putting herself out there too much. This really is the simplest way to show your ex that you still care. She is not looking through your posts and pictures on Facebook for no reason. You need to see through this maneuver. Since she is going to be subtle, you have got to be the one to make the next move. Just know that she is interested.